From the brilliant New York Times bestselling authors of the ârefreshingly bluntâ (Harperâs Bazaar) F*ck Feelingsâthis seriously irreverent roadmap reveals the essentials to look for when you're done being suckered by the promise of true love and want help seeking a real, lasting relationship.
Many people have opinions on the subject of romantic relationshipsâwhy theyâre so hard to find, so difficult to maintain, so easily analogized to planets and petsâbut the real source of trouble isnât too complicated: itâs that we are choosing our partners based on love, excitement, lust, attraction, needinessâŠon feelings.
Instead of helping readers find true love (also known as âtotal bullshitâ), Dr. Michael Bennett and his comedy-writing daughter Sarah reveal the practical, commonsense criteria for good partnerships that will allow real love to develop, even after the romance has died down or been buried completely. Finding a good partner involves losing preconceived notions about who your dream date might be, so the Bennetts helpfully appraise the pros and cons of eight traits people most commonly seek: charisma, beauty, chemistry, communication, sense of humor, family stability, intelligence, and wealth. They suggest youâll have better luck finding a partner in a bar, online, or on a date arranged by your chiropractor if you focus on ideas like mutual attraction and respect and common interests and common goals. With helpful quizzes, case studies inspired by Dr. Bennettâs practice, and unscientific flow charts, F*ck Love is packed with enough advice and wisdom to help you avoid the relationship nightmares that led you to this book in the first place.