Jen Kim blends real-life confession, pop culture, and psychology in at times TMI fashion into one delicious and good-for-you life lesson smoothie on her Psychology Today blog: Valley Girl With a Brain. Kim’ s blog explores everything from the most effective ways to get over a breakup (all backed by research), and the art of flirting (without actually seeming like you’ re flirting), to turning thirty (it can suck), and the perils of being too nice (it’ s not so nice). The author resides in San Francisco, California.