This e-book helps men get the tactics of gaining trust from the ladies they adore in their lives.
Tip number one. PUT YOURSELF IN HER SHOES
You may have already heard of this. However, empathy is not an overrated thing at all. We are different, at least in some ways. So, if youâre not ready to see a situation from another perspective too, how can you really understand whatâs going on?
There is truly no doubt that men and women see relationships from varying angles, but a desire for trustful behavior isn't reserved for one gender. Indeed, youâll find that if you look at the situation from her perspective, there are similarities to what youâre thinking yourself.
Do you want her to be honest and trustworthy with you? Do you want to actively plan activities you'll do together? Do you want to know her circle of friends and see that she's letting you into her life? Do you want to know that she's showing trust? See, it all comes full circle! Your lady is in a similar situation.
She wants you to show her that she's an essential component of your life, not that you want to keep her at arm's length. This involves restraining yourself without explaining why, not asking for âfreedomâ aggressively, not ghosting or gaslighting her (at all).
After all, donât you want the same things?
Tip number two. BE HONEST WITH HER
Honesty is the foundation that keeps everything else together in your relationship. If you donât reinforce honesty daily, itâll slowly disappear. Note that being sincere doesnât imply being utterly frank. Thereâs a big difference between âyou look better in other skirts, sweetieâ and âthat skirt looks absolutely miserable on you.â
You don't desire to be ruthlessly transparent unless you and your lady agree that itâs an essential part of your relationship. Otherwise, share your thoughts and opinions, although respectfully and neutrally. You want to formulate quality conversations without appearing like you're set on arguing.
In other words, donât treat her like sheâs a fragile person who can't recognize the truth, but you shouldn't be downright mean with her either.