The definitive guide to creating the sex life of your wildest dreamsâjust by talking about it!âfrom sexpert couple Vanessa and Xander Marin.
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Why is it so hard to talk about sex, even with the person who regularly sees you naked?
You know communication is important in a relationship, but you just donât know how to get started with such a sensitive subject. Maybe youâve never talked about sex at all, and the thought of it makes your palms sweat. Or youâre feeling so disconnected from your partner that sex is the last thing on your mind. Maybe youâre too scared to be honest about what you really want. Or you have no freaking clue what you want, so youâre not sure how to tell your partner anything helpful!
Sex Talks âhelps us overcome the myths that drag us downâ (John Gottman, New York Times bestselling author of The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work). Together, sex therapist Vanessa Marin and her husband, Xander, show you that the best thing you can do for your sex life doesnât even involve taking off your clothes.
Sex Talks covers the five essential conversations every couple needs to have:
1. Acknowledgement: a.k.a. âSex is a thing, and we have it.â
2. Connection: a.k.a. âWhat do we need to feel connected to each other?â
3. Desire: a.k.a. âWhat do we each need to get turned on?â
4. Pleasure: a.k.a. âWhat do we each need to feel good?â
5. Exploration: a.k.a. âWhat should we try next?â
With gripping storytelling and an intimate peek at what really goes on behind other couplesâ closed bedroom doors, Vanessa and Xander share their successful advice that has already helped thousands of clients. Sex Talks âredefines what it means to have great sexâ (Logan Ury, author of How to Not Die Alone), providing the sex education you wish youâd had, plus the tried-and-tested tools you need to create the sex life of your wildest dreams.