How to Win Friends and Influence People covers a lot of ideas. A good way to understand the book is to learn the general principles underlying the book. Then weâll cover a checklist for two common situations:
1) how to approach arguments,
2) how to give feedback and change someone elseâs behavior.
Principles
People crave the feeling of importance. Make someone feel important and they will think well of you. Diminish someoneâs importance and they will resent you.
Appeal to the other personâs interests. Virtually all people care more about what they want than what you want.
You wouldnât go fishing with cheesecake as a lure, since fish donât like cheesecake. Go fishing with worms.
Keep asking yourself - âwhat is it that this person wants?â
etc.
jamie
24/07/2023
I smiled everytime i listened to the book!
Anonymous
13/07/2023
Legenda. Kirja on pätevä vielä tänä päivänä.
hilla
03/03/2023
didnt read just dont have space in my phone