Celebrating twenty years since its release, Heâs Just Not That Into You remains a game-changer, offering no-nonsense advice for how to spot when a guy just isnât interestedâsaving you from wasting time making excuses for a dead-end relationships. Inspired by a memorable episode of the iconic show Sex and the City, it holds its ground as the best relationship advice you'll ever get!
For ages, women have come together over coffee, cocktails, or late-night phone chats to analyze the puzzling behavior of men.
Heâs afraid to get hurt again.
Maybe he doesnât want to ruin the friendship.
Maybe heâs intimidated by me.
He just got out of a relationship.
Greg Behrendt and Liz Tuccillo are here to say thatâdespite good intentionsâyouâre wasting your time. Men are not complicated, although theyâd like you to think they are. And there are no mixed messages.
The truth may be, Heâs just not that into you.
Unfortunately, guys are too terrified to ever directly tell a woman, âYou're not the one.â But their actions absolutely show how they feel.
Reexamining familiar scenarios and classic mindsets that keep us in unsatisfying relationships, Behrendt and Tuccilloâs wise and wry understanding of the sexes spares women hours of waiting by the phone, obsessing over the details with sympathetic girlfriends, and hoping his mixed messages really mean, âIâm in love with you and want to be with you.â
Heâs Just Not That Into You is provocative, hilarious, and, above all, intoxicatingly liberating. It deserves a place on every womanâs night table. It knows youâre a beautiful, smart, funny woman who deserves better. The next time you feel the need to start âfiguring him out,â consider the glorious thought that maybe, Heâs just not that into you. And then set yourself loose to go find the one who is.