All’s Fair in Love and War : A Survivor’s Story Featuring Narcissistic Abuse

A Survivor’s Story Feature. Narcissistic Abuse by Charlotte Slayer is a memoir chronicling the author’s traumatic journey through 16 years of emotional abuse at the hands of her husband, Jake, a covert narcissist. Written as a deeply personal and introspective account, the book reveals from the hopeful beginnings of their marriage—two recovering addicts finding love and building a life together—to the slow realization of the destructive dynamics that defined their relationship. Charlotte’s story begins with her discovery of the term "covert narcissism," catalyzed by a friend's revelation. Through her meticulous documentation of her husband's behavior in a secret notebook, she confronts the emotional manipulation, gaslighting, and erosion of her identity that she had endured. In her path toward clarity and healing, Charlotte grapples with the complexities and dangers of leaving a toxic relationship. This memoir is not only a tale of survival but also an empowering message of willpower, offering insight into the impact of emotional abuse and the courage required to reclaim one's life.