"I really love cuddling, but I have a hard time inviting guys to cuddle with me because they might think I'm inviting them to have sex with me, and sometimes I just want to cuddle. How can I ask for cuddling and not have a guy think I'm offering something sexual?" Believe it or not, this can be an issue for men too. Let's ponder this situation from some different perspectives since the same issue can have multiple causes.