In "Society as I Have Found It," Ward McAllister offers a candid and insightful exploration of the social hierarchies and cultural dynamics of Gilded Age America. Written with a sharp wit and keen observation, the book serves both as memoir and social critique, detailing the extravagant lifestyles of the New York elite and the intricate workings of high society. McAllister's prose captures the opulence, contradictions, and sometimes absurdities of the era, providing readers with a vivid portrayal of the societal constructs that governed behavior and relationships during this transformative period in American history. Ward McAllister, a prominent social figure and event planner, was immersed in the high society he critiques. His intimate familiarity with the upper echelons of society stemmed from his role as the unofficial arbiter of social etiquette. McAllister's privileged insider perspective allows him to navigate and articulate the nuances of class, wealth, and gender roles, making his observations not only personal but resonant with the complexities of an era marked by economic disparity and cultural shifts. This book is highly recommended for readers interested in American social history, as it offers a unique window into the lives of the elite, enriched by McAllister's sharp commentary. Scholars of the Gilded Age will find his reflections illuminating, while casual readers will appreciate the engaging narrative that brings a past world to life.