Please note: This is a companion version & not the original book.
Sample Book Insights:
#1 The chump is the dullard whose inadequacies drove the cheater into anotherâs arms. The chump is the co-conspirator who Must Have Known and had some tacit arrangement with the cheater. The chump is the failure who wasnât meeting the cheaterâs needs.
#2 You donât deserve to be cheated on. Itâs not your fault that your partner is unhappy. The choices your cheater makes are 100 percent their own.
#3 Chump blame is the act of trivializing the pain and suffering that comes from being cheated on. It faults trusting and believing in the commitments made to you, and it makes you feel foolish for having loved someone so unrequitedly.
#4 The majority of infidelity resources promote the idea that you can save your marriage alone. They ignore the fact that many therapists still donât understand how personality disorders affect relationships.