HOW TO GET SELF-CONFIDENCE is the central issue when tackling
about the development of self-confidence in an individual who, for
long, have believed that his self-worth is deficient.
It goes without saying that those confident individuals can bear
themselves better than those who have lower sense of the "self". They are
the achievers, the people of the limelight, the center of society. They
walk straight, speak their meanings very well and influence people, both
subtly and obviously. In short, they are those who care recognizable even
from afar.
Sometimes, self-confident people are very much loved by society.
It is perhaps due to their charisma or they are, by nature very amiable.
However, there are those self-confident individuals who, just by leaving
makes the room lighter.
These are two very dissimilar displays of self-confidence. One,
destroys a person's credibility and the other intensifies his personality. And
obviously, you would not want the consequences of being too confident
of yourself that the people no longer see you as effective, instead they
see you as annoyance to their daily affairs.
Self-confidence comes from within. Outside stimulation may help
but it would all still boil down to knowing yourself and using that knowl-
edge to gain confidence.
To get self-confidence, you must realize that your limitations must
not limit you and your attributes must not destroy you. Instead, use all
these factors to develop a personality that would be productive for you
and all those that surround you.