Enjoyable sex: itās not about technique or a perfect body or being hopelessly, passionately in love. Itās about Sexual Intelligence.
In his three decades of working with couples and individuals as a sex therapist and marriage counselor, Dr. Marty Klein has continually seen that although most people say what they want from sex is pleasure and closeness, thatās not what they focus on during sex. Instead, weāre preoccupied with how we look, what our partner is thinking, how weāre performing, and whether weāre ānormal.ā We do more thinking, worrying, and judging than experiencing. Sex like that canāt thrill us, canāt create intimacy, and canāt, well, feel sexy.
In Sexual Intelligence, Klein shows how to stop observing ourselves during sex, ending our obsession with sexual performance and sexual normality. āI donāt help people āfunctionā better during sex,ā he says. āI teach people how to relax and enjoy sex with the body they have, the partner they have, in the situation they have.ā Now thatās something we all want: fulfilling, exciting sex at every stage of our lives.
In Sexual Intelligence, Klein challenges our understanding of sex, love, intimacy, romance, and satisfaction. After all, sex isnāt just an activity. Change the way you think about sex, and you can change your sex lifeāforever.