The times we say âyesâ when we need to say âNoâ. We do things or say things we know we shouldnât have. Pointless and needless arguing. Pathetic bouts of anger. Frustration. Ego. âgetting our own backâ. And so, it goes on. We are perfect as we are and are not a toy, plaything or a pet to anyone elseâs ideas or expectations.