The question keeping you up at night: Is marriage even worth it anymore?
You've watched marriages crumble around you. You've seen friends divorce after promising forever. You've experienced disappointment, betrayal, or soul-crushing monotony in your own relationship. The statistics are grim. The cultural narrative is bleak. And you're wondering: Should we even bother?
This book gives you the honest answer you're looking for.
Marriage: Should We Even Bother? doesn't sugarcoat reality or sell you fairy tales. Instead, Christian counselor and pastoral leader ADEDOTUN tackles the hardest questions about marriage with refreshing honesty, biblical wisdom, and practical insight:
✓ Why modern marriages fail—and what makes some thrive against all odds
✓ The unspoken expectations that sabotage relationships before they begin
✓ Whether your struggling marriage can actually be saved (the real answer may surprise you)
✓ What the Bible really says about marriage, divorce, and when to fight versus when to let go
✓ How to know if you're with the right person—or if you're forcing something that won't work
✓ Practical strategies to build a marriage that withstands life's storms
✓ The truth about "settling" versus realistic expectations
This isn't a pep talk. It's a reality check with a roadmap.
Whether you're single and skeptical, engaged and terrified, married and disillusioned, or divorced and wondering if you'll ever try again—this book meets you where you are with truth, compassion, and actionable guidance.
Marriage isn't for everyone. But it's not dead either.
Some marriages should end. Some should never begin. But countless others can be transformed from barely surviving to genuinely thriving. The key is knowing which is which—and having the tools to build what's worth building.
