Dr. Haltzman has taken dozens of stories from his clinical practice and on-line surveys to help women relax and enjoy a happy marriage by not working so hard on it, by doing less, talking less, skipping a few counseling sessions, understanding their husband's way of expressing himself, and taking better care of themselves. Here are some key secrets revealed from www.DrScott.com * Learn to communicate more about the connection you seek so your husband really knows what it looks like and how to do it. He'll accept it as his goal. * Realize that your husband sees his most important job as pleasing you. Seriously. Remember the line "You make me want to be a better man"! * Who says the house has to look like Barbie's Dream Home? * Nurture your husband's strengths and don't try to change what you can't. * Speak in shorter sentences, don't skip from subject to subject, and pause frequently. No kidding * Take time for your own exercise, spiritual and intellectual needs. * Avoid fruitless and unrewarding emotional work like most marriage therapy, how to books (except this one), and gripe sessions.

Dr. Haltzman has taken dozens of stories from his clinical practice and on-line surveys to help women relax and enjoy a happy marriage by not working so hard on it, by doing less, talking less, skipping a few counseling sessions, understanding their husband's way of expressing himself, and taking better care of themselves. Here are some key secrets revealed from www.DrScott.com * Learn to communicate more about the connection you seek so your husband really knows what it looks like and how to do it. He'll accept it as his goal. * Realize that your husband sees his most important job as pleasing you. Seriously. Remember the line "You make me want to be a better man"! * Who says the house has to look like Barbie's Dream Home? * Nurture your husband's strengths and don't try to change what you can't. * Speak in shorter sentences, don't skip from subject to subject, and pause frequently. No kidding * Take time for your own exercise, spiritual and intellectual needs. * Avoid fruitless and unrewarding emotional work like most marriage therapy, how to books (except this one), and gripe sessions.